Understanding U.S. culture and etiquette can greatly enhance your travel experience and help you connect with locals. American culture values individualism, open expression, and informality in most social settings, yet there is an underlying emphasis on politeness and respect for personal space. A friendly demeanor is appreciated, and a simple “hello,” smile, or small talk is often welcomed in daily interactions, whether with service staff, locals, or fellow travelers. While Americans may seem more open in conversation, personal questions about income, age, or family matters are generally avoided unless you know someone well.

Punctuality is highly valued in American culture, especially in professional or business settings. Arriving late without notifying someone is often considered rude, while being on time, or even a few minutes early, is seen as a sign of respect. In social situations, timing can be a bit more flexible, but it’s still polite to communicate if you’re running late.

Tipping is an important part of U.S. etiquette, as many workers in the service industry, including restaurant servers, bartenders, and taxi drivers, rely on tips to supplement their wages. Tipping 15-20% of the total bill in restaurants is customary, and tips are also expected in other service areas, like hair salons and hotel services. Not tipping, or tipping less than what is customary, may be perceived as disrespectful or unaware of local customs.

Americans value personal space, and physical distance during conversations or in public spaces is generally respected. Hugs or physical contact are reserved for close friends and family, and it’s common to maintain an arm’s length of distance when speaking with acquaintances or strangers. When it comes to dining etiquette, Americans usually eat with a fork in their right hand, switching it to the left only when cutting food with a knife, a style known as the “American style” of dining.

Finally, Americans place a strong emphasis on equality and inclusivity, with a focus on politeness in social interactions. It’s appreciated when visitors demonstrate respect for diverse perspectives and cultural backgrounds. Political discussions or opinions on sensitive topics may arise, but it’s best to approach these with sensitivity and respect, or politely steer away if you’d rather not engage. A genuine interest in learning about the culture and respect for local customs will go a long way in making your interactions pleasant and enjoyable.